Best Time To Make Love

Wake me up at the crack of dawn looking for sex, and I’m likely to ignore you, or yell at you—and not in a dominatrix type of way. To put it mildly, I’m not a morning person—or, rather, I’m up for “morning sex,” if 11:59 a.m. counts as “morning.” But others have different ideas on the matter, so I asked my friends what time of the day equals sexytime for them.

Photographer The Lovely Brenda says she’ll do it anytime, but the morning is her favorite: “I love to wake up next to Aaron and his raging c***, as the warm sunlight pours through the wooden blinds. To climb on top, feel him between my legs, and stick my nose between his beard, ear, and pillow, so that I can smell and hear him in my left ear drives me wild. It leaves me with thoughts that I can jerk off to for the rest of the day when I’m alone at home, working at my computer while he’s away.”

Searah Deysach, owner of Chicago sex toy store Early to Bed, prefers the middle of the day. “Sex in the late afternoon is always my first choice. In the morning I just need to get out of the house as soon as possible and at night I’m often too tired. In the afternoon you don’t have to worry about waking the neighbors, and you don’t have to turn on any lights but can still see all you need and want to. Plus, I always get a burst of energy after, so it’s good to have time to make use of that.”

Graphic designer Sinclair likes to get it on at night. “Getting off is such a nightcap for me, for some reason. Something about the ritual of getting undressed and getting in bed anyway makes it a perfect excuse. And I sleep better after an orgasm or two.”

In Alison Tyler’s erotica anthology Afternoon Delight, each story focuses on a specific time of day when characters get busy, making for round the clock screwing. Taylor says that “every hour is worth trying,” but afternoons are her favorite time for f***ing. “They revamp my whole attitude for the day. I’m also partial to #### right before we go out so that we have a little bit of a secret nobody else knows. That is, until we tell them what put the flush on my cheeks and the spark in Sam’s eyes.”

I don’t have a preference for morning, afternoon, or night sex. In recent years, it’s been about taking what I can get, rather than being picky about when it happens. Sex before work can feel rushed. Afternoons are out for me—unless you count text flirting and dropping naughty hints via email. But on weekends I like lounging in bed for as long as possible. Some weekday nights I’ll get a second wind—if there’s a good enough reason.

More often than not, the best sex isn’t planned—it’s spontaneous. When do you think is the best time for sexytime?

When Is The Right Time To Get Married

There were these two friends I met. They sat gazing at eachother. They gave each other syrupy smiles and squeezed each other tightly. "Well, how old are you?" I asked. "I'm twenty," he said, "and she is eighteen." "But why does age really matter anyway?" the young man chimed in. "We love each other, and we're right for each other. Everything in our hearts tells us we should be together."

So how old should two people be when they marry? That depends on many factors-maturity level, ability to earn a living, progress in education, and so on. But we can say for sure that, statistically, marriages seem to be much more stable when they begin no earlier than the mid-twenties. As a matter of fact, a recent study indicates that the most stable marriages of all have a "starting date" of twenty-eight years of age. Divorce rates are lowest for men and women who marry for the first time at age 28 or later. The chances for a stable marriage increase as both partners reach the age of 30 and then the rates level off".

The divorce rate for those who marry at twenty-one or twenty-two is exactly double the divorce rate for those who marry at twenty-four or twenty-five. Self-identity has to be the reason. Sometimes the self-identifying task takes even longer than twenty-five years. It's not uncommon for two middle-aged persons to marry with little understanding of who they are as individuals. When your identity process is well developed - when you are clearly in touch with the person you truly are - the task of selecting the right marriage partner becomes significantly easier.

They Mean So Much To Men And Women

There are certain important things that you must do to keep your marriage healthy. These rules include;

Gifts Of Flowers
From time immemorial, flowers have been considered the language of love. They do not cost much but are highly valued when given to mates. You must not wait till Valentine days and seasons to present gifts. Pick up flowers on the way and give to your mate. Experiment this and see how it works.

Constant Contacts
You must make out time for your mate. Sit close and hold him or her. Talk to each other heart to heart. Hug your mate whenever you return from work no matter how tired you may be.

Regular Calls
This shows your mate that you love and remember him or her. It also shows that your mate’s happiness and welfare is dear, and very near to your heart. The more frequent your calls, the stronger the bond between the two of you. Always remember to end every call with lovely words such as “I miss you, I love you and many more.

Birthday Anniversaries
One of the feminine mysteries is that women attach a lot of importance to birthdays and anniversaries. While the average man can blunder through life without memorizing many date. Make sure you do not forget to surprise your mate with abundant gifts on his or her birthdays and anniversaries.

Too many people underestimate the value of these small every day attention. Do you know that even a simple thing as a woman calling her man at work to say “I just called to know how you are doing “, ending with “I love and miss you” would help him to withstand the pressure from other women outside because he will be so emotionally bond to you to an extent that a strange woman may not easily break.

Close Of Work Affair

Alone in the office, or just like being risky? Bring over your sexiest someone to try something a little different from your boring bedroom sexual activity

So it's another late night in the office. All of my co-workers have gone home. My mind starts wandering a bit while I continue to work. A dirty hip-hop song comes on, the kind I grew up with, about a particular rapper having the "magic stick."
Suddenly, a friend messages me, someone a little long distance. We chat normally, but I do know how damn sexy he his, and it gets me to thinking... this is the perfect time for office sex. I've figured out there are about 9 places to try this:

1.Desk:

A classic idea. Must be sturdy, though... that is, if the guy knows what he's doing.

2.Swivel Chair:
Comfortable like crazy. And it twists, must I say any more?

3.Floor:
There must be a clean spot somewhere... a bit cold, though.

4.Sofa:
Why is it so damn comfortable? I know it's not for the people who sit there a grand total of 10 minutes waiting for an interview.

5.Stairs:


Probably the best for those short-tall couples. This way, the shorter one can go up higher to a more suitable level for the taller one.

6.Kitchenette:

The counter, definitely. Sit on the slab of marble and let the guy stand.

7.Bathroom:
A classic idea for those who think they're "kinky." Yet, still a goody, considering it offers the most privacy.

8.Roof:
Seriously, does anyone ever go out on the roof at your job ? The only risk you have is being seen from the building next door that's a few floors higher.

9.Wall:

This can be a little tough to maneuver... but not if the man lifts you, then he only works a little bit harder.

10.Resting On Desk:
This is a comfortable method. The women would relax well on the table with arms while the man stands on his feet and comes into her from behind.

Love And Relationship Science

How we fall in love may be the hardest human behavior to explain. It is a fact that no one can measure or estimate love. It can come in various forms, hot, cold or scalding. Read on and know some human response to love and how good or discomforting it could be.

People Like Certain Things They See Or Hear
Humans are suckers for pretty things and lots more. Most men prefer women with large breast and a low waist to hip ratio which they perceive as a sign of fidelity. Most women like men with muscular bodies and a full beard. They later associate them with a sign of and a healthy flow of virility –introducing testosterone (a male sex hormone). Men with deeper voices are perceived naturally as having a high level of testosterone level and in one study were shown to have more children, suggesting that women respond to the way they sound.

The Lure Of Smell
Humans naturally respond to olfactory cues like all other animals. The menstrual cycle of women living together often synchronize, sometimes that is probably governed by scent. In the same way, men seem able to detect when women are ovulating – and thus are more fertile – and will behave more solicitously towards them during those times. Many women have reported that their men are more loving, attentive, and significantly, more jealous of other men during their ovulation period.

When Sex Becomes Love
Just been attracted to someone does not mean that that person is attracted back to you. A few things drive us crazy that we can not help but keep chasing something that is not meant for us.

At the moment of a kiss alone, there is a rich exchange of postural, physical and chemical information. Culturally, customs that warn against sex at first date may have emerged for such practical reasons as avoiding pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases but are also there for tactical reasons. Men or women who volunteers their babymaking services too freely and cheaply are not often valued in the long run. While those who seem more discerning are more likelier to be respected more. Immediately you start having early sexual intercourse, your eyes may become blind in that relationship. At times you begin to feel good without knowing that it is your brain that is making you feel so and not the attributes and qualities of your mates whom you are having sexual relationship with. Indeed, these attributes and qualities are values you should first search for before been distracted by sex.

When Love Dies
Love could become so strong but yet it is still indestructible. People who meet under some influences such as alcohol or drugs or in a state of high excitement, may cool off when their bodies return to baseline. Rejection activates some regions of the brain that controls addiction, which is why it can be hard to quit someone even after the person has quit you. The spurned lover who grows angry or needy can push the other person even further away which accelerates the split and may actually help both parties.

Many romantic relationships do not deliver goods. For all the joy it promises, it can also play us for fools, particularly when it convinces us that we have found the right person, only to upend our expectations later.

True Aim Of relationship
Happily, romance need not to come to ruin. Even irrational animal like us would have quit trying if the bet did not pay off sometimes. The eventual goal of many couples is to pass beyond serial dating into what is called companionate love. However, nearly all successful relationship must settle to cool. This is a hard truth but it is a comforting one. I will call it a smooth transition from a strong to a stablier state which you paid with the solidity you have built over the years.

Maintaining Commitments In Marriage

What Is Commitment In Marriage?Commitment is a sense of duty that brings happiness to a marriage and helps to bind the marriage together. A couple may remain committed to their marriage because of their children or because of a duty they feel towards their Almighty creator. Certainly, such motives are admirable and will help a marriage survive difficult times. But to be truly happy, marriage mates need to feel more than just a sense of obligation to each other.

Commitment can therefore be likened to the mortar that binds the bricks of a sturdy house. Mortar is made from a combination of sand, cement and water. Similarly, commitment is formed from a combination of such factors such as duty, trust and friendship. Such a bond built on these three factors can not be easily broken.

What Are The Challenges In Marriage?
Commitment requires hard work and self sacrifice. It demands that you will be willing to forgo your own preferences in order to please your mate. Only a few selfish people can maintain their marriage because of poor or lack of sacrifice. Without commitment, a relationship will sour no matter how sweet the romantic feeling were when the couples first fell in love. Unfortunately, even marriage mate who normally are unselfish do not always acknowledge each others anxieties or value their mate’s sacrifices. When a couple fail to show appreciation to each other, their marriage is bond to cause them more.

How To Strengthen Commitment In Marriage
Make Your Marriage A Priority
A man should honour his wife and a wife should respect her husband and take him as the head of the family no matter if she is the bread winner. Usually, the more important an endeavour, the more time spent on it. This means that you should spend much time with your mate. Do specific things to reassure him or her that you are still good friends. This will ensure your mate that you are still committed to the union.

Avoid All Forms Of Infidelity
Think back how you would have felt if your boyfriend or girlfriend was having sexual intercourse with another person. I know it is very bitter and hard to bear. How then will you feel if your husband or wife is involved in such an act? Infidelity in marriage is the worst blow to the union, one that can give the grounds for divorce.

Has your heart fooled you? Ask you self; To whom am I most attentive to – my spouse or some other member of the opposite sex? To whom do I share good news first – my spouse or someone else?

If you find yourself attracted to someone other than your mate, limit your contact with that one to only what is necessary and keep all encounters on a purely professional level. Do not focus on ways on way in which you think this person is superior to your mate. Instead focus on your mate’s positive qualities. Recall the reasons why you fell in love with your mate. Ask yourself, ‘has your mate really lost these qualities or I have I become blind to the due to circumstances?’

Also ask yourself , ‘what activities could I cut back on to allow more time for my mate, and what could I do to assure my mate that I am committed to the marriage?’